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Hot take… this is why so many women stay when they shouldn’t 👀
Not because they’re weak.
Not because they’re desperate.
But because they’ve been TRAINED to function no matter how they feel.
From a young age, women learn:
👉 You’re uncomfortable… keep going
👉 Your mood shifts… still show up
👉 Life doesn’t pause… so neither do you
So when a relationship gets hard…
they don’t panic.
They push through.
But here’s the problem:
Just because you can tolerate discomfort…
doesn’t mean you’re supposed to. ⚠️
@nycdivorcelawyer explains why this exact mindset keeps women in situations longer than they should, and why discomfort isn’t always something to “work through.”
Sometimes it’s a signal.
So ask yourself:
Are you growing through this…
or just tolerating it?
Comment “Full Interview” if you want the full breakdown 👇
Transcript
I have a theory about women and men. I haven't said it out loud. I have a theory that almost everything about, like, major differences in relationship between men and women can be traced back to women getting their period. Go with me on this. I'm like any rank. When I get a head cold, I'm dying. Just go on without me. I'm dying. I've never no one's ever been this ill. I'm so sad. Here's the thing. Yeah. Women from a quite young age learned the following lesson. You're going to be uncomfortable roughly every twenty eight days, and you still have to get shit. No the fact that you're uncomfortable, you still have to operate under those conditions. You don't get to say, I have cramps. I'm gonna be staying home for the next two day. You don't get to do that. So one, you learn how to operate when you're uncomfortable. K? Two, you actually have to plan ahead. Like a woman getting her period, like, you have to be like, okay. I have to bring sanitary products. I have to think about, oh, if if I'm planning a thing, I don't wanna plan it for this particular week because probably that's where I'll be in my cycle. So you have to plan. So I think that that thing creates, like, certain habits of thought, like a willingness to be uncomfortable and still push through and operate, a a planning ahead of things, a realizing that, like, your body and your emotional state are gonna fluctuate sometimes due to circumstances beyond your control, and you just have to ride with it. Like, men don't have anything like that. We're uncomfortable even for a second and we're like, well, this is broken. This is done. There's something seriously wrong. So that's the reason why, like, I I think a lot of men, the minute something's gone uncomfortable in their marriage, like, well, we're done. Roll up the sleeve. We're done. We're finished. This is it. It's wrong. Rank it's like, you know, you're you're happy. You got cold. You're gonna be alright.
