Why men's hobbies impress menfrom @sensei.nick

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Every man eventually discovers that the things you thought would impress women mostly impress other men. You start lifting thinking, well, if I get jacked, women are gonna love this. And then five years later, you post the best physique of your life. Women say, nice. Men say, bro, your legs are insane. What are you running? Crazy insertions, my guy. So you wanted romance and you receive peer review. Same thing with the cars. Right? You buy the sports car thinking women will like it. All they say is, oh, cute car. Meanwhile, a four to six year old man named Greg has materialized at the gas station asking about your wheel fitment and exhaust. Do you have sports cats? So you didn't acquire female attention. You acquired Greg, and Greg has lots of questions. And I think watches are even worse because you spend $10 thinking it quietly signals success. Women don't notice anything about it because they don't care about watches. But some accountant named Rank spots it from across the room and asks, is that a GMT? What's the reference number? And now you two are friends. And the funny part is men tend to build themselves around things that other men understand are difficult. Right? Muscles, cars, watches, running times, whatever it is. And sure, those things can make you more attractive indirectly, but they rarely work like they many call you imagined. So you cannot rev the engine and expect women to emerge from the forest. Three men will though. So eventually that becomes the better part. You stop doing the hobby for attention and start doing it because you actually love it. Maybe you started lifting to best girls. Ten years later, the only person who noticed your improved hamstrings is a man named Derek. But Derek is very proud of you. And weirdly, that becomes enough.