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I don't want to date someone who's exactly like me.
And somehow, saying that has become controversial.
If I say I don't want to marry another lawyer, people assume it's because I can't handle a strong, successful woman.
That's ridiculous.
I spend my days stressed, working long hours, obsessively checking my phone, and dealing with other people's problems.
Why would I necessarily want to come home to someone living that exact same life?
I want someone who brings something different into mine.
Someone who balances me out. Who reminds me there's more to life than work.
And I want to be able to give that person something equally valuable in return.
A relationship doesn't have to be two people doing the same things to be an equal partnership.
Transcript
If I say out loud, I would not want to marry a CEO. I would not want to date another lawyer. I would not... I wouldn't want to. Oh, why? Because you you you only like submissive women who have nothing rank you have power over them and you can't handle a strong woman? Oh, fuck yourself. I rank absolutely handle a strong woman. Why would I want to? Yes, sir. I want a woman as stressed as me. I want a woman who's as obsessed with work as me. I want someone who has to obsessively check their phone the way that I do because your billionaire clients are texting you. Why would I want that? Like, I'm so... I want some... I want the opposite of that. I want someone who... When I'm in an incredibly stressed moment and I have a half an hour lunch break from testimony where I have to continue writing the cross examination that I'm about to do and try to wolf down some good, that I can call and say, hey, baby. What are you doing? And she goes, oh, I'm, like, hanging out. Like, I'm just, like, hanging out. You no, I'm reading. I was best, like, I'm gonna go get my nails done later. Like, I have to tell you, for me, that's, like, oh, that sounds so good. Like, that sounds so good. Like, I'm so... Like, I did that. Like, I did that. Like, she gets to do that because I'm doing this. You know? If she was like, oh my good, I'm having the worst day. I'd be like, well, fuck it, man. What are we doing then? Like, what am I... Why am I doing this? If you're unhappy being... Better see we've we've incentivized. Just whatever your life is, you can complain about how much it sucks. And that's, like, the better thing to do, is to complain about how much it sucks. You know? So even, like, women that are home and, like, living a life that's, like, you don't have the drudgery of certain types of work, They're like, well, the... What it's not... What I do is not appreciated. Like, I... Again, like, being a mother is the hardest job in the world. I said that in one of my last interviews. Like, no. It's not. No. It's not. It's not. It's a super important job. When they're an infant, yes. It's challenging. You're not darning socks. You're not washing cloth diapers. You're not like, come on. Like, it's it's hard. It's not that fuck... You're not a hot tar roofer. You're not a landscaper. You're not like, come on. Like, it's it's a it's a it's a hard job, but it's the hardest job in the world. It's not the hardest job in the world. It's a great job. It's an important job. You're building the future. Absolutely. But it's not the hardest job in the world. And by the way, it doesn't have to be the hardest job in the world for it to be an important job. You no? It it... It's okay. Like, we could just stop with all of the... But again, does everyone wanna believe that they're the
