Host reacts to cringey relationship clipfrom @nycdivorcelawyer

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I am dumber for having watched that clip. Being attracted to other people while in America. Do you do when you're attracted to someone other than your spouse? Isn't that normal as long as I don't act on it? Well, it's not normal for me. You don't find other men attractive? No. I'm only attracted to you. Well, that's because I'm a man and we're visually stimulated. Well, I'm visually stimulated by you. Does any of that sound familiar to what you've heard before? And when you play it all the way through, it makes absolutely no sense. I wanted to defend that I would always be attracted to other women, notice their body parts, and have, from time to time, sexual thoughts of other women. Meanwhile, Caitlin was living in a place of wholeness saying, I want us to only be us and have nobody else be a part of our emotions or the way we view people outside. That's what I signed up for in marriage. That's what we all sign up for. We wanna feel safe, we wanna feel seen, and we wanna feel intimate. Intimacy is into me you see. You cannot have intimacy here if you're bringing in all of these other people into your union. Union is between the two of us. It's us interwoven and connected, not worst. Intermedious see, Jim. Intermedious see is intimacy. I am I am dumber for having watched that clip. Tier reminds me of, like, those did you ever see, like, the guys that they're, like, there's a lot of prison versions of them where they're, like, you atone Yeah. To the at one. The atone is the recumbent sound, and the atone brings you to at one with the universe. And you're like, what the boat park? This is how, like, QAnon happens. Yeah. I think that wow. Like, that while they were pretending to be the people having a fake discussion, they sounded dumb, and then they sounded even dumber when they went to their normal self. An impressive accomplishment. Yeah. It's like best when I was like, wow. The bar's so low. I was like, woah. It got lower. Yeah. I don't know what she means when she's like, you're bringing all these other people into the relationship. I don't think he was saying, like, oh, I saw this woman, and then I brought her home. It was like, let's all Like, I think what he was saying is that, like, if you see someone and find them attractive, that that's something that you're going like, that's not a betrayal of your partner. It has nothing to do with your partner. It's just you as a heterosexual human being or a a fully formed sexual adult who may find certain things attractive about other people.