@thomasmalucelli
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@thomasmalucelli If you feel like you’re behind, trust me - you’re not. I’m 39 now, and my life looks nothing like I thought it would. I’m not sure if you can relate- but something shifts in your 30s where everything you think you “should” have by now is just not what you want anymore. I wanted a career in hospitality, had no interest in becoming a father and was also quite resisting to anything healing related. That was just old pain and insecurities. Healing changed things. Now I feel ready and so excited to become a dad! If there’s one thing I’ve learned as I get closer to 40, it’s this: You don’t have to have it all figured out or follow a timeline. You don’t need to be who you were five years ago or who you thought you’d become. Most of us are just learning ourselves in real time. Shedding old identities. Building new ones. Letting go of stories that kept us small. So if you feel behind… you’re not. You’re growing. You’re evolving. You’re becoming. And it’s never too late to create the life and the version of you that actually matters.
