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I don't think we just fall in love with another person.
I think we also fall in love with who we become when we're with them.
Think about it.
When someone really loves you, they see things in you that you might not even recognize in yourself.
They make you feel beautiful. Interesting. Worthy of love.
And sometimes, seeing yourself through their eyes allows you to appreciate parts of yourself you've forgotten about.
I think that's one of the most extraordinary things about a good relationship.
The person you love should also help you understand yourself.
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I don't believe we just fall in love with the other person. I believe we fall in love with the person they make us, where they make us feel like. Right? Like anyone who's ever been in love, you know it's not just how this person makes you feel when you see them. It's like how you feel when you see yourself through their eyes. You no? Like, it's also about, like, connecting to yourself. Like, we forget, you know, the aspects of worse that someone else might really appreciate. Because, you know, you're you. You're in there. I'm me. I'm in here. You no? So how am I supposed to... You can't fault me for not knowing a 100% of my partner. So why don't we help each other see each other, understand each other, and understand ourselves in the process? Like, because I think that that is what a good relationship is, is it's also holding up a mirror and showing you, like, hey, is this... Are you being who you wanna be? Because the things I'm asking of you in a relationship, am I willing to also give you the things that you need from me? Like, because some of the things I need, you might not need.