Expert debunks bad relationship advicefrom @nycdivorcelawyer

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Next up, we have a music artist and podcaster talking about, giving up people who your partner does not like. If you want your relationship to last, you need to be willing to give up other people that make your partner uncomfortable. It's called respecting your partner. It's not controlling. It's not toxic. It's called growing up. Yeah. No. I'm gonna disagree with you on this one. Also the artifact. Best drives me nuts every time. Yeah. I don't think this is good advice at all. You know, this is, this is, her in her, you know, TikTok or Instagram story trying to convince her boyfriend to stop following his ex girlfriend. That's what that is. Like, making it extrapolating it to a broader audience. I mean, like, listen. If you're a guy who's about five foot eleven and named Brian, there's absolutely no reason why you need to follow someone. And that's just basic respect, and that's just math and science. It's not that I'm insecure at all at all. I'm not. No, yeah, I mean, I think that that's best, that reeks of insecurity. It it absolutely, you no, I think what you're doing is just, like, throwing out a a solution to a problem you're having and you're proposing and presenting it like it's a prescription for people generally in their relationships. I think that's way too much of an overgeneralization. I think that there are times where your insecurity towards a connection that your partner has to someone else, may be something you need to work on, not something they need to work on.