@alyssalauren
Instagram · One Shot
@alyssalauren confess something: (213) 563-5849 (all callers consent to having their voicemail shared prior to posting) #advice #cheating
@alyssalauren
Instagram · One Shot
@alyssalauren confess something: (213) 563-5849 (all callers consent to having their voicemail shared prior to posting) #advice #cheating
Performance
Video #26126 · One Shot
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The creator plays an anonymous voicemail from a 33-year-old man while she listens and reacts emotionally. The man recounts the story of his biggest regret: cheating on his partner from his 20s after he became successful. He explains how she stood by him when he had nothing, and how he threw away the life and family they built for 'options' that came with money, concluding with a cautionary message for young people and the lifelong pain of his mistake.
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What stops the scroll in the first 3 seconds
Title hook · 55%
a message to young men:
Verbal hook · 25%
Alright. It's time to listen to the voice mails we got today.
Visual hook · 20%
A woman smiles and rubs her hands together in anticipation, creating a sense of curiosity and human interest before the emotional story begins.
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The promise the opener makes, and how the video pays it back
Hook
An audience surrogate sets the stage to witness a raw, private piece of content (e.g., a voicemail, a letter), creating immediate voyeuristic curiosity about the message to be revealed.
Payoff
The narrative concludes with a final, somber statement on the lifelong weight of certain choices, leaving the audience with a powerful moral and a sense of vicarious learning.
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The structural pattern this video runs on
Framework
The Cautionary Confession
A raw, first-person account of a major life mistake is presented through a third-party listener (an audience surrogate) to deliver a powerful, cautionary lesson.
The Lingering Wound
The confessor immediately establishes the long-term emotional fallout of their past actions, hooking the viewer with the gravity and ongoing pain of the situation.
The Stakes Established
The confessor details what they had built and what was at stake (e.g., a life, a family), giving the central mistake a high emotional cost.
The Core Transgression
The specific mistake or failure is revealed in a blunt, direct statement, serving as the story's inciting incident.
The Universal Framework
A memorable quote or piece of wisdom is introduced to elevate the personal story into a universal, shareable lesson that provides a lens for the entire narrative.
The 'Before' State
The confessor describes the situation before the transgression, highlighting the loyalty or value of what they eventually lost, which serves to validate the universal framework.
The Catalyst for Failure
The confessor explains the circumstances that led to the mistake, often tying it to a change in status, wealth, or opportunity, which further proves the framework.
The Direct Warning
The confessor explicitly addresses the audience with a direct command or piece of advice, translating their personal regret into a clear, actionable lesson for the viewer.
The Painful Aftermath
The confessor reveals the current state of affairs, which often includes the person they wronged having moved on successfully, creating a bittersweet and complex sense of loss.
The Permanent Reminder
The confessor identifies a daily, inescapable reminder of their mistake, emphasizing the permanence of the consequences and making the regret tangible.
confess something: (213) 563-5849 (all callers consent to having their voicemail shared prior to posting) #advice #cheating
title · beginning
a message to young men:
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I still think about my ex pretty much almost every single day.
contextual · beginning
we were together in our 20s building a life, raising kids and I... cheated on her.
informational · middle
boys there's this quote and it's... a woman's loyalty is tested when a man has nothing. and a man's loyalty is tested when he has everything.
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and it's true.
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I remember the life we built before I messed it all up.
contextual · middle
no status. just potential, really.
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she believed in me when believing in me didn't really come with anything shiny
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then my life changed and the money came. suddenly so did the options. I guess.
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years of everything that we had built together all thrown away in one night.
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And it's still my biggest regret.
informational · end
if you're a young man getting this or a young person listening to this don't make the mistake of hurting the person who loves you because you don't know how to love yourself yet.
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and she's remarried now, and she's happy and I'm glad that she is and I'm glad that somebody else is giving her what she deserves.
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but every time I look at our three kids... I see her.
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you know? I see her smile. I hear her. I hear her laugh.
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luckily, they're more like her than they are like me.
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but some lessons come with a lifetime of consequence.
Alright. It's time to listen to the voice mails we got today. I'm 33 now, and I still think about my ex pretty much almost every single day. We were together in our twenties, building a life, raising kids, and I cheated on her. Boys, there's this quote, and it's a woman's loyalty is tested when a man has nothing, and a man's loyalty is tested when he has everything. And it's true. I remember the life we built before I messed it all up. No money, no status, just just potential, really. She believed in me when believing in me didn't really come with anything shiny. Then my life changed, and the money came suddenly, so did the options, I guess. Years of everything that we had built together all thrown away, in one night, and it's still my biggest regret. If you're a young man getting this or a young person listening to this, don't make the mistake of hurting the person who who loves you because you don't know how to love yourself yes. And she's remarried now, and she's happy. And I'm I'm glad that she is, and I'm glad that somebody else is giving her what she deserves. But every time I look at our three kids, I I see her. You know? I see her smile. I hear her. I hear her laugh. They, luckily, they're more like her than they are like me. But some lessons come with a lifetime of consequence.