The creator presents a video essay analyzing the rise of 'numbness' and deadpan personalities as a cultural trend among online 'it-girls.' She theorizes this is a form of resistance to patriarchal expectations for women to be polite and smiley, then argues that this trend is evolving into overt feminine rage. To support her thesis, she provides examples of public figures like Charli XCX, Chappell Roan, and Sofia Isella, before promoting a creative project by Death to Stock that explores the intersection of beauty and rage.
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I went to the intersection of numbness and rage and everybody knew you there……
Femininity and emotional expression are being reframed. While some public figures embrace numbness as resistance to expectations, we wonder if rage is the natural next step.
@whatzaraloves explored this emotional pipeline and its influence over our definitions of beauty and femininity💄
Tag yourself are you numbness or rage?
Transcript
Numb is in according to your internet it girls. It's beta blockers and deadpan personalities tier this appears to run deeper than just media training and internet personas. You need to smile more. And I was like why? I don't smile. The deadpan personality could be an escape from patriarchal expectations that tell women to be these polite, smiley, nurturing beings, especially in the media industry. With that, we're seeing a very controlled stoic performance of femininity rising online and in the media industry. I think of our first trend of 2026, which was it only has to make sense to me, which speaks to this type of voluntary disengagement. But when things stop making sense, what comes next? I think if we view numbness as resistance to this sweet, polite, feminine ideal, then so is rank, and that equally can be a form of resistance and change. I think of things like Chapel Rhone shouting at the paparazzi at the VMAs and how that created a positive shift. And then look at artists like Sofia Assel channeling foun rank anger into her songs. She's taken rage inspired by the works of Fiona Apple and Sylvia Plath and channeled it into songs about female liberation. If numbness is a way to disengage from patriarchal expectations, then rage and anger is a way to break free. And if ever a time to enact that rage it is now, Best to stock explored the intersection of beauty and rage and their recent project makeshift. You can find it on the death to stock platform, and please tell us in the comments what's been bringing you rage recently.