Lawyer explains dating age gapsfrom @nycdivorcelawyer

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I look at a 28 year old woman no, and I think, oh, when my son was in that, like, kindergarten, like, months of the year, like, January is the tier. When did the that's the little girl who worst standing next to him. Because he's 28. So to look at that girl now in a lustful way, for me, feels really weird. Because when I looked at her standing next to my son, because they were classmates in kindergarten, I I I didn't look at her lecherously. I looked at her like, oh, look at the lovely young woman, you know, like a little girl. Like and and now I like to listen. There's something wonderful about being around youth, men or women. It's lovely to be around young people because they're at the beginning of their journey, they're moving through the worse. Like, there are some young female attorneys in their late twenties, early thirties, who I have a very paternal relationship with, like, a very, like, mentor type and protective type relationship with. And I don't see them, even though there many of them are type relationship with. And I don't see them even though there many of them are quite beautiful, I don't look at them that way. I I really look at them like like like you would look at a flower. Like, oh, it's so lovely and beautiful and beautiful and it's blooming rank it's a lovely thing. So I think there comes an age where you're supposed to regard people that way. Again, I'm not judging people. If if someone is very virile in their fifties and sixties and someone in their twenties or thirties finds that person attractive, knock yourself out. Like, people have a right to have age gap relationships. I've seen some very, unsuccessful close age relationships. I've seen some very successful age gap relationships. But, I I I definitely think leading with your sexuality post 50, particularly for a man, is kind of a weird pity.