Creator presents social skills listfrom @avni

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Women who always get chosen aren't the smartest or the most qualified. They just have mastered these six social skills, even if they're an introvert. The first thing that they do is they make everything about the other person. Even if they're sharing something about themselves, they'll end with, it made me think of you. People might forget what you told them, but they'll remember the moments where you made them feel important. Second, make your compliments insanely specific. So don't say things like, you look great, you look stunning. Say instead, I love the color of your shirt and how it makes your eyes pop. Specific compliments are more genuine. You're not just saying it to be polite and people remember them. Third, become ridiculously easy to help, which is as simple as framing your questions as a yes or no answer. So none of those vague questions like, can I pick your brain? Can I go for a coffee chat with you? Instead, you make them so specific that there's only one way to respond to that, yes or no. So something instead like, hey. I saw on LinkedIn that your first year you connected to that person who's the hiring manager for my dream job. Can I send you affordable blurb that you can pass on over to them with my resume and cover letter? See how that's just a yes or no answer? Powerful people are much more likely to help when you give them a really simple task, not this massive homework assignment where they don't even know where start. But these are just the first three. I broke down the other three and exactly how to use all of them in my new YouTube video. If you wanna watch it, comment below and I'll send it to you.