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I think being a multi passionate person isn't a failure to commit, but a form of resilience. I recently came across this research study by sociologist Peggy a Thoitz called multiple identities and psychological well-being. And she talks about two kinds of people. The first person is the isolated person, someone who possesses few or no identities. And secondly, the integrated person, someone with many identities. Maybe they're a parent, an employee, maybe they are part of the church, etcetera. She argues that integrated people, those with many identities, tend to exhibit less psychological distress than isolated individuals, those with few or no identities. Because think about what happens when you lose an identity that you've built your entire life around. In this example, the researcher brings up a traditional housewife who was recently widowed and asks herself, what have I left to live for? A more modern example would be what if we lost our jobs or we move somewhere new. And suddenly, you're not just losing one thing. You're losing a source of meaning, structure, community, and your understanding of who you are.