Man psychoanalyzes his haters monologuefrom @davi87dp

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Hating me is pointless. I'm just gonna psychoanalyze the behavior, trace it back to your childhood, figure out exactly why you're like this, and somehow end up feeling bad for you. Now I'm not even mad. I'm concerned that... Because you you think we're having an argument and I'm conducting an unofficial psychological assessment. Like, you'll say something disrespectful and instead of immediately getting offended, my brain just starts asking questions. And like, oh, why did that upset them so much? Why are they reading this this way? Why they why they reacting so strongly? Who who made them feel like they they had to compete for attention. Suddenly, I'm looking at you like a concerned school counselor. You came here to insult me, but now I'm just wondering whether your parents celebrated your accomplishments enough. Like, this is not the outcome either of us expected. And the worst part is I start connecting dots that may not even worst. Like, oh, so when I disagreed with you, you felt rejected. And maybe disagreement feels threatening because you grew up around people who made love feel conditional. Meanwhile, you literally just said you didn't like my shoes. Like I need to relax because sometimes people aren't acting out of unresolved childhood trauma. Sometimes they're just being annoying. But you no, my brain refuses to accept such a simple explanation. I get... I need a timeline, a a mode of supporting evidence. At least three examples of previous behavior. By the end of the conversation I've mentally written the 12 page case study on somebody who was rude to me in a parking lot. And somehow I've gone from wanting to defend myself to thinking, I really hope they find peace.