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Where does our obsession over performative men come from?
Today: A look at the perfect irony of the performance in ‘performative man’ content, and how it reflects the broader problem with social media: there is no ‘outside’ to performativity; all self-awareness does is add layers to it.
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Being performative has become a performance. Today, I wanna talk about performative men and the self aware aesthetic. In between Indonesian boat kid aura farming content, my feed has been flooded the past few months with performative man content, in which a particular genre of man is skewed for a now familiar set of tropes. Coat bag wearing, performative reading, matcha drinking, Claro listening. Now there's something about all this content that really makes me chuckle. It recalls one of my favorite quotes by the philosopher Slavoj Zizek. Even if we don't take things seriously, even if we maintain an ironical distance, we are still doing them. Because the men making these content do have these haircuts. They do listen to Claro. They do rock the small top, big pant tote bag combo. And in an effort to get ahead of their own reputational issues, they have to prove that they're above it. That being conscious of the performance is somehow the same as transcending it. What's important here is not to judge, but to recognize that self awareness doesn't free us from performance. It just adds another layer to it. Infinite regress. Once being aware of your performativity becomes the new performance, you have to become self aware of that performance, and so on and so on. The irony, of course, being that in an effort to transcend the aesthetic, they just end up creating a new self aware aesthetic. This goes back to some of the ideas I talked about in my video on the authenticity illusion. There is no outside to performance on social media. Critiques themselves are reincorporated as soon as they become content. The algorithm does not clock your meta commentary. It all feeds the same content system. We're all products of algorithmic taste making better we admit it or not. The guy with the tote bad, the guy making fun of the guy with the tote bag, the guy making fun of the guy making fun of the guy with the tote bag. The only winning move is to stop pretending that you are the only exception. To admit you're not original, your taste is algorithmic, and hey, you are okay with it. That's the radical act, dropping the performance of being above the performance. So bring me my strawberry matcha. Oat milk, please. I think I'm lactose intolerant.